Guest Blog: Alyssa Aaron

Alyssa Aaron

Something Old – Something New – Alyssa Aaron Talks About Erotic Romance

First of all, thank you for hosting me here on the Erotica for All Blog. I appreciate the opportunity to share a bit of myself and my work with your audience.

Fantasies! They’re what those of us who write romance sell.  Within the broad range of romance novels there are about ten common romance fantasies or plot hooks that most readers will recognize.  These are common in sweet as well as erotic romance. Undoubtedly you will recognize some if not all of these plot hooks. There are probably some that you will recognize as your favorites. They include plots hooks like:

Marriage of Convenience, Marriage Under Duress
Stranded with a Stranger
Captured Heroine
Runaway Bride
Secret Baby
Reunion Romances
Back from the Dead Stories
Mistaken Identity
Woman in Jeopardy
The Dad Next Door

I’m a big fan of the marriage of convenience/marriage under duress plot.  There is something intriguing about being forced into a marriage…forced into that level of intimacy…especially with someone you don’t know. My novel His Perfect Submissive is written using the marriage under duress plot hook. In His Perfect Submissive my heroine Kara who was kidnapped and raped when she was seven is put in the position of having to face her worst nightmare — being intimate with a man — in order to save her brother and ultimately her mother who is in poor health and who would not survive her brother’s trial and subsequent incarceration.

My next novel Dominant’s Regret, which I am still working on, is written using the reunion romance plot hook. In Dominant’s Regret my hero and heroine who are still married and who once shared a Dom/sub relationship are forced back into close proximity with each other. The characters are forced to face the issues that ruined their relationship the first time around.

As you can undoubtedly discern from the titles, my books are erotic. What this means is that my characters have to do more than just tease at the fantasies involved in being forced into a marriage or reuniting with a former lover. These fantasies can generally be addressed in sweeter romances.

Within the realm of erotic romance there are certain broad erotic fantasies that are common.

Some of the common erotic fantasies that readers and authors will both be familiar with are:

Power Exchange – Dominance and submission – BDSM
multiple partners – ménage
same sex – gay and lesbian
Domestic discipline – spanking stories
oral and anal sex – generally allowed in mainstream titles
sex with toys
exhibitionism and voyeurism

Undoubtedly you recognize some (or maybe all) of these as being favorite erotic fantasies. I tend to be attracted to characters who are involved in power exchange relationships of one sort or another. I’m also fond of domestic discipline so my stories tend to include those elements.

But essentially what writers of erotic romance need to do is combine the old with the new. The plot hooks that I mentioned have been around for a long time. Books have been written using marriage of convenience, reunion romance, stranded together type plot hooks for years. But erotic romance allows authors to push the boundaries of eroticism…to go outside of the mainstream tab a in slot b sex and engage in other variations of lovemaking.

In His Perfect Submissive the story isn’t just about Kara being forced to marry Slade. Slade doesn’t just want a marriage. Slade’s a dominant with a healthy sexual appetite and a taste for sexual practices that run toward BDSM, spanking, dominance and submission. So Kara isn’t just facing the intimacy of marriage. She is facing a kind of lifestyle which scares the bejeebers out of her. She’s facing a kind of lifestyle that tends to require a level of trust completely foreign to her.

In Dominant’s Regret the hero and heroine aren’t a traditional vanilla couple getting back together. Instead Trent was Lacey’s dominant husband. He screwed up and let her down big time, and now he has to go back to square one, rebuild the trust that he lost and rebuild the relationship with new rules of engagement that work for both him and Lacey.

It isn’t just the sex that is different from traditional romance. The characters are different people because of their sexual experiences and because of their sexual desires. Because they are different their relationships…their romantic stories…are different from the stories in sweet romances…even though some of the plot hooks are borrowed from traditional romance.

I’ll leave you with an excerpt from His Perfect Submissive.


She glanced up from her plate and caught his eyes resting on her. His expression was relaxed and intimate, like a gentle touch. It made her feel toasty and a little tipsy, sort of like the feeling she got at New Years when she drank champagne. She smiled self-consciously and glanced away from the intensity of his gaze.

“I know I’ve told you what I want from marriage, but I never slowed down enough to ask what you want. I’m sorry I didn’t ask sooner.” He cast her a half smile, just a twitch of his lips, and a softening of his features. “Are there things you want to be part of our marriage?”

She nearly choked on her turkey and had to take a drink of her Mountain Dew to wash it all down. “I’ve never really thought about it,” she said when she recovered. “I never planned to marry.”

The words reminded her how hopeless their marriage was and how dishonest she had been in not telling him about her past. She sucked in a deep breath and let it out again. Slade had managed to touch some sensual part of her without waking the demons inside her, but she couldn’t imagine she’d feel anything but claustrophobic desperation when his weight was on top of her pushing her into the bed.

“Even so, you are married. There must be things you want from marriage,” he coaxed, drawing her mind back to the conversation. “I can’t make you happy if I don’t know what you want or what you need.”

She looked across the table feeling lost in the question and in his unflinchingly steady gaze. The earnestness in his words and in his gaze made her believe he did want her to be happy. She struggled with what she needed, what she wanted and whether she wanted any part of the marriage at all.

She’d been forced into it in the first place. She never would have chosen to marry at all if it hadn’t been the only way to keep her brother out of jail. Yet, now that she was married…she couldn’t envision enjoying sex, with anyone, and yet she liked Slade.

She dipped her head, shying away from the power of his gaze and then stealing a glance at him as she started to speak. “Trust isn’t easy for me,” she said in a small voice.

Slade nodded. “I need to be able to trust you Slade.” Her voice sounded pleading and she hated the weakness in it, the beseeching quality.

“You can Kara. Always.”

She sighed.

“What else do you need? Kara?” His voice was soft, a whisper of sensation that affected her almost like a touch.

Her tummy tightened as if he had touched her. She glanced at her hands knotted against the Formica table. “I would like to—” she swallowed hard and blinked back tears that rose in her eyes, hating the fact that she felt teary all of a sudden.

She looked at him through the glimmer of unshed tears and read in his expression only an honest desire to understand what she wanted. “I would like to feel at least cared for.” The admission left her feeling cold and alone, as if she was begging for scraps of affection that she was not entitled to. “I know that wasn’t part of our agreement but-—the idea of having—of—” She sucked in a deep breath and closed her eyes fighting the tide of embarrassment that washed over her.

“The idea of making love with me—-I get that part of it-—now go on—”

She opened her eyes feeling utterly embarrassed. His knowing smile loosed a tingle of awareness that shot through her making her feel cared for and protected in spite of her embarrassment.

“The idea of doing—that—without you at least liking me a little bit makes me feel-—really empty.”


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  1. says

    Enjoyed your blog post very much, Alyssa! And ‘His Perfect Submissive’ definitely sounds like a must read! Best of luck with your tour.

    K D Grace

  2. says

    Good Morning!

    Thanks once again for having me here at Erotica For All. It’s a pleasure to be here and to have the opportunity to share a bit of my work with folks who enjoy erotica and erotic romance.

    Thank you KD Grace, I’m delighted you enjoyed the blog post and I hope you get a chance to read His Perfect Submissive. I very much enjoyed writing it. I STILL think about Slade and Kara and what they’re up to and it’s been about 3 years since the book was finished. They are characters who became real people with lives that extend beyond the pages of the book in my mind so when I think of them now they’ve moved forward in their lives…they’re having new experiences beyond those in the book. It’s odd how the writer’s mind works. 🙂

  3. says

    Delicious topic Alyssa. I particularly liked those power reversal stories. And, for some reason the “secret baby” ones — combined with sizzling passionate scenes, of course — always intrigue me. (My dirty little secret.)

    Enjoyed the read!


  4. says

    Thanks Louisa,

    I’m fond of the power exchange stories too. I think they are my favorite because that kind of relationship requires a lot of trust and respect and a dedication to the relationship and that always intrigues me. Trust seems to be a pivotal issue in most of the stories I write. It certainly was a big issue for Slade and Kara in His Perfect Submissive and is a huge issue for Trent and Lacey in Dominant’s Regret as well.

    I like the idea of including children in the lives of the characters in erotic romance. It bothers me that children are absent from the vast majority of erotic romances. It sort of seems to prop up the notion that hot sex is only for young people without kids…and I don’t think that’s true.

    I’m mulling over a couple of story ideas that will be erotic power exchange stories that will have children which will figure prominently in the hero and heroine’s lives. I like characters who are well rounded, real people, who have lots of things in their lives. His Perfect Submissive focused entirely on the relationship between Slade and Kara but not all of my books will have quite that tight a focus.

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I always love hearing what readers like — and don’t like. 🙂

  5. K. Welch says

    Lovely post. I like that you laid out the differences between sweet/erotic so plainly. a nice “primer” for the uninitiated. Ooh, and nice excerpt from “His Perfect Submissive”. (now I have to figure out how to get another book on my “need to read” list. lol). Thanks for the blog.

  6. Jen B. says

    I recognize all of the hooks. I do like it when authors mix it up a bit. The exchange of power is such a good hook.